Tuesday, February 04, 2014

Of Super Bowls, Life, and Perspective

        Watching the end of the not-so-Super Bowl Sunday night I was in a funk. I was looking for the Broncos to show up, not the imposters wearing the orange jerseys. As soon as it was over, and I watched it to the last tick of the clock, I opened Facebook, turned on my phone for messages, and checked my email. (Because I went to church on Sunday night I was watching on about a two hour delay and I didn’t want any spoilers coming in.)

         I read what everyone was saying, trash talking if you will. I laughed at the good ones, 



was disappointed in the old worn out ones. (Any joke referencing OJ Simpson’s Bronco) I changed my Facebook profile picture to a black ribbon and went to my desk to finish preparing for teaching my class on Monday morning. I tuned the television to a Denver channel but the game was over; no more mourning. 

         After class on Monday I received this message from a good friend, one who likes to razz me about my sports team choices. But it got me to thinking.

         Some time this week I will go sit in the home of a woman whose husband died during heart surgery in Colorado Springs on Saturday. She hasn’t come home yet.

         Two of my classmates recently lost their husbands, one to a heart attack, one to an accident.

         These are the people my heart aches for, not John Elway, Peyton Manning, or Champ Bailey. They are not in mourning. They know it was just a game, or just a bad day at the office for them.

         While Bronco fans were mourning, and Bronco haters were piling on, Peyton Manning was in the Seattle post game interview room talking to Richard Sherman, congratulating him on the win and asking about the extent of his leg injury. See the article here.

         While fans were wondering how they would face their co-workers tomorrow, the Bronco players, coaches, executives, and families were at a party back at the hotel. The Denver news station reported that the room was the same, the drinks were the same, the food was the same as it would have been had they won. The atmosphere was less festive, but they weren’t out crying in their beer, they were partying with champagne.  
         
      I wish they would have won. But almost every season, in every sport, at sometime, my favorite team goes down to defeat before the final championship. None of my teams have won championships since the 2010 Lakers. In 2009 both the Lakers and the Yankees were champions. In 1998 and 1999 both the Yankees and the Broncos were champions. The Lobos have never won it all. The good years are far apart. I have been a Yankee fan since childhood. I have been a Laker fan since they traded for my favorite player, Kareem. I have been a Bronco fan since 1976 when I moved to Utah and Craig Morton became a Bronco.

         Lets keep things in perspective. Sports are just that, sports. And if the players and coaches don’t take things personally, why should we?

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